NEVER EVER SEND MONEY to a seller using the Paypal option of "family and friends". If the seller decides not to ship or you want to cancel, for whatever reason, and they refuse to refund your purchase you have NO RECOURSE. Money sent this way is not covered by Paypal buyer protection and some sellers know this. So...if you are instructed to pay for your purchase using the "send money to family and friends " option with the excuse they are trying to avoid paying Paypal fees, don't make the purchase. I wish I had been aware of this before I made a recent purchase here.