In your other post you state that you've installed an aftermarket HU, so I assume you have the original radio out and can check the connectors at the rear.
If you look at the last diagram you put and the right hand one in the first post at the left of the connector you're asking about, in one there are two round connectors and in the other just one, depending on what your radio has ( I'd say it's just the one as the other is for the bluetooth antena on the facelift, I believe) then that's the diagram you should use for the pinout....