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Old 08-27-2007   #17 (permalink)
garyhun
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Originally Posted by in2dwww View Post
Here's my take on the situation, and it applies to almost everything else pertaining to judgements:

When someone goes out of their way to make a comment or remark akin to a crass judgement, that person, deep down inside, is very insecure.

Don't let it bother you. Just understand that the individual has clearly identified his/her inferiority to you and has thus stated their reason why. It's nice to know that you don't even have to go around explaining why you are better than someone else, because the insecure people will just go ahead and tell you why you are so much better.

And this has nothing to do with what someone drives or what color your hair is... just spend one day around others and you will start to hear little judgemental comments thus identifying that person as insecure.

The best response is to simply say "Thank you."
Spot On!!
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