Originally Posted by DansSlk

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I do appreciate that a life was taken in this incident and thats a tragic loss as is any loss of human life but a line has to be drawn at what point does it become acceptable to pry like this and while i might not have as much experience at this life game as some of you folks one thing i have learned (mostly from working with insurance companies!) is that rules can be bent to suit ones needs unless set in stone........